I am a single mother of 2, oldest in Jr. High. Just curious – since my oldest will sooner than later learn about marijuana – how do I approach the situation? Do I hide it (as Ive been doing), or explain the benefits and false presumptions about it? I just want to be prepared for the day when it comes up, because I know it will. For now, Ive been pretty good at hiding it. I dont want to be all out in the open about it and make an example of using drugs being "OK". However, I dont want to constantly hide it and then have the school tell them its this awful mind altering substance. Any advice on how you parent AND smoke pot? Have you discussed it with your kids? What age??